What is it about getting behind the wheel of a car that makes people feel that they must go, go, go? That they must have the right of way? As in, "get out of my way!"
Even though we don't own a car, I'm still a driver thanks to our occasional Vrtucar usage, and I was a regular driver until just last year. I've been behind the wheel plenty. And I know there is an urge to GO, keep moving, no matter what, although I've always been conscious of that urge and generally been good at taming it. But some people, man, they just got the urge and no control over it!
This sad reality was - pardon the pun - driven home for me tonight when I went racing off to Scouts with our older son. After an evening spent on homework and tidying, we suddenly realized that he was half an hour late. Oops! We weren't going to bail on the evening entirely because his group is going on a winter camping trip next weekend and we knew they'd be doing some prep for that tonight. So off we raced, around the corner and up the hill. The hill in question is very short; it runs less than half a block, a half block along which three houses sit closely together, so you get the idea. No sooner had we started up the hill than some fool in a Mini Cooper (cute car) came up behind us and started honking at us. As in, "get out of my way!"
Whoa! It's winter and the streets are already half as narrow as they normally are. The sides of the roads are sloped with ice. The road we were occupying has no sidewalk and is naturally quite narrow. And tonight there was a car parked on one half of it, partway up the hill. So, it was us or the car. Gee, we were there first. And we were running full out. This Mini Cooper driver couldn't wait the 3.5 seconds it was going to take us to clear the hill and "get out of his way"!
I did what any self-respecting mother would do and swung round with a fist in the air, calling "piss off!" or something like that. Right in front of my eleven year old. And am I ashamed? No bloody way. This prompted Mr. Mini Cooper to honk more and rev past us. Nice. Very nice. Definitely someone who should have legal rights to be behind the wheel of car.
I'm not jumping to any big conclusions here, but I suspect that Mr. Mini Cooper was a youngish fella (or gal). Not sure, about that, but fairly certain. But it's not as though such infractions are the exclusive domain of youngsters.
I remember one winter a couple of years back when I was trudging (not running this time) up the very same hill with my then four year old. We were walking to school, pretty much at a four year old's pace, but not too slowly. When I heard the car behind me, I fought the urge to ditch both of us in the snowbank, which is frankly my usual reaction. I thought "no, we were here first, it's a short stretch of road and we've every right to get to the stop sign as reasonably quickly as we can". This driver squeezed past us anyway, within mere inches (which really angers me; when the roads are icy and snowy, all you need is one slip and a pedestrian can easily end up under the wheels of your car when you're that close). This driver then promptly drove the remaining 20 feet to the stop sign, crossed over the road, and parked immediately on the other side. When she got out, I was somewhat taken aback that she was an older woman (ie my mother's age, likely somebody's grandmother). She looked right by us and hurried on foot, back across the road to the church, where she must have been attending a meeting or club.
I called out to her what I'd like to say to all drivers right now: "What is it about getting behind the wheel of the car that makes you think you should go first?" She didn't answer.
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